From Ian Ironwood of TheRedPillRoom.com comes a recurring series, for young men (or any man new to the Red Pill) everywhere, that acts as a helpful guide during a man’s transition from Blue to Red.
I wish I knew how I ended up at that site. But that’s also another cool thing about the sphere. There seems to be an endless archive of knowledge available to search through and you can always find something new. Or at least it’s new to you.
The Red Pill Primer for Boys is new to me. It was created in Google Presentation. If you go into full screen mode, and then presentation mode, it really gives you a feel of being in a classroom with the instructor going through the days lesson. The old-timey pictures are cool (they’re an iconic symbol of the TheRedPillRoom) and it makes reading the material quite enjoyable.
The information presented in the Primer isn’t anything new. You’ve heard it before. However, to me, this has been the most easy-to-read-guide, that I’ve seen so far, compiled in the manosphere.
Did I mention that it’s free? You can save each part as it’s own pdf.
The easy-to-understand-guide is divided into twelve parts (more parts to come). They are:
The Red Pill For Boys – Introduction To The Red Pill
Part One: Sexual Attraction and the Sexual Marketplace (SMP)
Part Two: The Female Reproductive Cycle
Part Three: Alpha And Beta
Part Four: The Male Sex Drive
Part Five: Sexual Market Value (SMV)
Part Six: The Red Pill
Part Seven: Your C-Card: Commitment
Part Eight: Female Sexual Psychology
Part Nine: Why Feminism Hates You
Part Ten: Game Basics
Part Eleven: Gaming Girls: An Introduction
Part Twelve: Rejection
Part Thirteen: Consent (coming soon)
I haven’t even finished reading the whole thing yet and I felt like I needed to share it. I just finished Part Six – The Red Pill.
My two favorite Parts so far are Part Two – The Female Reproductive Cycle and Part Five – Sexual Market Value (SMV).
Ovulation Is Your Friend
In the past, for some reason, I never felt it was necessary to be ‘in tune’ with my partners reproductive cycle. Hell, I didn’t think there was a point.
It turns out that knowing when your women is Menstruating and when she is Ovulating can have a huge impact on your current attractiveness to your mate.
My first favorite section is, Part Two – The Female Reproductive Cycle.
When she is Menstruating she is more turned on by Contextual Attractions ie. Beta displays.
Some examples of more Beta displays include:
- your verbal skills
- where you live and
- social status
When she is Ovulating she is more turned on by Physical Attractions ie. Alpha displays.
Some examples of Alpha displays include:
- your physical appearance
- strength and
- social savviness
(note how in each cycle they are attracted to a certain behavior more than the other, not just one or the other. When in doubt though I would always go Alpha.)
The next time I get into a MLTR (mini long term relationship) I most certainly will have my ear to the ground and my nose in her panties so I can figure out her silly cycle.
Value Yourself
Learning about the SMP (sexual market place) has really opened my eyes to what’s going on around me.
I understand my current SMV (sexual market value). It’ll take time to increase it, but, at least I know where I`m at and know how to increase it. I no longer get upset or confused as to why certain women don`t find me attractive.
My second favorite part is, Part Five – Sexual Market Value (SMV).
The guide suggests that for men to be happy in a LTR (longer term relationship) they must date DOWN. Or, “While marrying a beautiful woman may be your dream, if she’s hotter than you are then you are in for some trouble.”
For women to be happy in a LTR then they must work hard to date UP. Or, “finding higher-status and ‘hotter’ men than they are to mate with.” Keep in mind though, “it is vital that your SMV remain higher than hers or risk becoming a victim of hypergamy.”
I can’t imagine what it’s like to digest the Red Pill at such a young age but with The Red Pill Primer For Boys by Ian Ironwood it helps make the Pill process a bit less harder to swallow.
Tell me, how were you introduced to the Red Pill?
A breakup? A friend? By accident?
Share your story in the comments. -dcl
Thanks for the props! I’m still revamping the section on consent in the wake of YMY and other issues, but I’m planning at least a few more. I’m also planning on taping the entire presentation in Youtube format, once again for free.
Spread the word, my Brothers. Help end the Beta scourge in the next generation before it takes root!
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My pleasure Ian.
I’ve been following and reading your content since I started. It means a lot that you made your way over here and dropped a line, thanks.
I can imagine that the YMY section is going to be an interesting one.
But, I think that, the LMR (last minute resistance) that boys these days are facing can’t be that much different than it was when I experienced it. Which means that it will be just as simple as it has ever been to get past it, but, now the after math of a sexual encounter between two strangers can be even more messy.
I believe the after math of hooking up should be talked about more. Like how to handle the post-coitus rush of chemicals you feel in bed. Then the day or two after. How to make her feel not-slutty and such.
Young guys growing up need to learn flawless damage control.
There’s a self defense saying that goes something like, “first rule of self defense is to not put yourself in dangerous situations”.
I’m all for young guys living in the moment and partying it up. But young guys also have to plan for the future. Like learning how to have expectations and standards in any relationship.
We have to teach boys that women aren’t out to get them. They just simply can’t act any differently.
So, learning how not to put yourself into situations where you could be accused of something is an important part of navigating the SMP (sexual market place) safely and with your best interests in mind.
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